Fall Activity Ideas for Connection and Communication

As the leaves change, autumn gives us the perfect opportunity to slow down, create, and connect. Crafting can spark conversation, support sensory needs, and encourage self-expression in ways that feel safe and joyful. Here are two fall-themed activities selected with neurodivergent humans of all ages in mind:

1. Leaf Rubbing 

• Gather fallen leaves of different shapes and textures.

• Place a sheet of paper over each leaf and gently rub with crayons or colored pencils.

• As the images appear, use the shapes and colors as conversation starters: “This one looks like a hand!” or “Which color feels calming to you?”

• Great for sensory seekers, visual thinkers, and anyone who finds it easier to talk while their hands are busy.

2. Pumpkin Story Stones

• Collect smooth rocks and paint (or draw with markers) simple fall images: a pumpkin, acorn, apple, moon, cozy mug, fireplace, etc.

• Once dry, place them in a basket. Take turns pulling a stone and adding to a shared story. (“The pumpkin rolled down the hill and bumped into…”) This activity is a great opportunity to also practice alternate communication modalities, including writing, speaking, texting, typing, or AAC.

• This playful structure supports communication, creativity, and turn-taking without pressure.

As with all learning activities, reducing demands is key for promoting natural communication. Instead of forcing the idea of a craft, consider inviting your child to join you in the process and honor their approach, even if it’s not what you intended. The goal isn’t a perfect product, rather, it’s the process of sharing, learning, and connecting.